How do I stop criticizing myself?

 

Questions

Questions

From B. DeRoes page on test anxiety from Edmund Bourne’s “The Anxiety and Phobia Workbook” I found these Socratic tips on countering negative self talk:

  1. What is the evidence for this?
  2. Is this always true?
  3. Has this been true in the past?
  4. What are the odds of this really happening (or being true?)
  5. What is the very worst that could happen? What is so bad about that? What would I do if the worst happened?
  6. Am I looking at the whole picture?
  7. Am I being fully objective?

These are excellent questions to ask yourself when you “get your negative tapes” going in your head.

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